Showing posts with label language. Show all posts
Showing posts with label language. Show all posts

Monday, June 24, 2013

Some Things I Learned From a Long Trip - Language

Greetings from Nova Scotia!  I've been trying to write this post for days but life in Hamilton got in the way (which will be one of the final "Some Things I Learned..." post).

Now onto language and what one might learn while on a long trip to a country with a different primary language. But first a small bit of background to help you understand where I'm coming from.  Firstly, German is technically my first language.  Secondly, I was bullied as a small child when I was learning English.   I have, for years, beat myself up over the fact that I do not speak German fluently; it was only after realizing the second point that I understood (part of the reason) why as well as why I have a hard time speaking any language if I can't do it perfectly (as if!).  This, of course, underscored our trip to Berlin.

Whenever anyone says to you, "Oh, you don't need to speak German/French/Italian/Insert Another Language Here in X, everyone speaks English," be a little suspect.  Many friends who'd been to Berlin recently sang the same song, and even people we met who have lived in Berlin for many years asserted the same thing.  I think it might hold true if you either a) stuck to the more tourist/shopping areas, b) lived in a neighborhood like Kreuzberg (lots of expats and hipsters), and/or c) you weren't overly concerned with being understood or understanding.  A third point I should've added to the paragraph above is that being understood is VERY important to me - whether it's literally or emotionally or psychologically.

Sunday, April 7, 2013

Oh the Irony

We just got back from Paris* yesterday.  I'd been worried about my lack of French language skills, buying into the "Parisians hate people who can't speak French" idea.  (I even had the ladyfriend look up how to say, "Please don't hate me" in French.)  In actuality, it was fine.  I know a few words in French, and people didn't seem unhappy to speak English when those few words ran out.

So where's the irony?  The cabdriver who took us from the airport back to our flat mocked my German.  Maybe I should've stayed in Paris.

*full post about Paris with photos should be up tomorrow.